Saturday, August 18, 2012

Birth Story pictures continued

Her first "flippin the bird"
So tired but full of meds and love!

Our beautiful girl with her milk mustache

This is what happens when you take a paci out of a sleeping baby's mouth, haha


Kenadie ready to head home!

Skin to skin time. Kenadie's favorite activity

Heading home as a family of three!


My first walk in the hallway after the c-section


Getting to hold her for the first time






My favorite photo. Ever.

Kenadie's Birth Story


Our little girl finally made it! We are so excited. It was a very long and tiring induction process to get her here, so here goes the story. In my last post I wrote about how I was waiting for the results of my 24 hour urine test and knew if it was over 300, they would call me. Well I got an email from Kaiser saying I had new lab results so I looked them up and it was 647. So I was thinking Oh crap they are going to call me and want me to come in. We started backing the hospital bag and sure enough, 15 minutes later the nurse called and said they wanted us to come in within the next 1-2 hours. We stopped by Tony's parents for a quick dinner on our way then we were off to the hospital. When we got there the doctor on call said it was time to start the induction process because of the protein in my pee and my blood pressure was through the roof when we arrived. I kept trying to tell them it was partly because I was so nervous about getting induced. I was really trying to avoid the magnesium drip they give you in labor to prevent preeclamptic patients from having seizures from high BP. I had heard the most awful stuff about the magnesium, how terrible it makes you feel while on it. But my BPs were still sky high so they forced me to have it. The nurses had to tell me several times to be the patient and let them be the nurses. Anyways, the magnesium drip has to be on the whole time you are in labor plus 24 hours after birth. The worst part is the first half hour where they do a huge bolus to get the drug in your system. The dose was 4 grams for the first 30 minutes then 1 gram/hour after. Here was my take on it: it made me feel super hot like my blood was boiling and really achy like you have the flu. Not the best thing but it really wasnt too terrible. I felt so much better after they decreased the dose. Then checked my cervix and it was still high, thick, and closed. So they started the Cytotec at 1:05am to help my cervix soften and maybe progress a little. After that I felt a little crampy and regular contractions were showing up on the monitor. Soon the crampiness went away and I wasnt feeling the contractions hardly at all. Another dose of Cytotec and a few hours later, they checked my cervix and I was a fingertip dilated and a tiny bit more thinned out, but still really high. They started the pitocin which was awful because you can't eat anything except a clear liquid diet while on it. I was on the pit for 6 hours and having regular strong (on the monitor, I still wasnt feeling much) contractions. They checked my cervix and I was still the same. They let me turn it off and have a break from the pitocin so I could eat and get some rest. At midnight the next night (so almost 24 hours after starting the induction) a doctor came in and was really pushing us to get a c-section. He said he could schedule it for 7am that morning and this was so tempting because I was already exhausted and tired of not being able to eat off and on, but we said no because we really wanted to give my body a chance to progress and have a vaginal birth. So we started the cytotec and pitocin process again. A few hours into it, they inserted a foley bulb into my cervix to try to get it to dilate. As soon as she put in the foley bulb, I was 2cm dilated. About 2 hours later, she came to check on it and see if it was ready to come out and I was 4cm. We were all SO happy and relieved and thought this was the beginning of some good progression. About 8 hours went by...still 4cm and head was really high. I was going through periods of contractions that were pretty painful then the next hour, they weren't painful at all. It was so weird. Not like I had ever pictured it. They gave me an epidural to try to get some rest and let me say the epidural was wonderful! Why not everyone gets it is beyond me. It took about 5-10 minutes start to finish, did not hurt, and the best part...they put in a catheter after it was in and that was the end of needing to get up to pee every 15 minutes! Anyways, I got some rest that night which was great. At one point the nurse came to wake me up to put an oxygen mask on because the baby was looking "sleepy" on the monitor. 20 minutes later she was looking great again so I got to take it off and go back to sleep. In the morning, my cervix was checked again. Guess what. Still 4cm and head high. All that time and no progression. A c-section was highly recommended by the doctors AND nurses. If L&D nurses are telling you to go for the c-section thats probably a smart choice. They do everything they can to try to have their patients do a vaginal birth so we really trusted them. So 58 hours after the induction process started, we agreed to a c-section. They said "ok, you are next in line so after this patient is done with her section, its your turn." Holy moly! I was so stinkin nervous but I was able to close my eyes for a little while. I was so uncomfortable because I was absolutely starving and thirsty. I wasn't allowed to have anything. That was the worst part of the entire thing. Anyways, about 2 hours later (not sure why it took so long) we were heading down to surgery. I was NOT feeling well at this point. Whatever drug the anesthesiologist gave me was not agreeing with me. I was feeling so lightheaded and nauseous, just not right. I was so out of it and felt like something was wrong because I have seen so many c-sections on TV and they are always aware and with it. So they take me into the O.R. and tell Tony to wait outside and it would be 15-20 minutes later and they would call him in when they were ready to start. I just remember it was such a bright room and there were so many people walking in and out. They kept doing tests on my belly to see if I was numb but I was not getting numb on the left side. They had to keep pushing drug after drug and lowering the head of the operating table down. So my head was practically touching the floor and the rest of my body was at an upward incline. They finally got me numb and had Tony come in and said they were ready to start. Oh and I was able to lay flat again, thank goodness. About 5 minutes into it, they said here comes her head. Then they said she was out and I heard her beautiful little cry! Tony got teary and said She's here! They told me to turn to my left and I saw her all scrunched up and screaming. She was brought to the table where Tony followed her and cut the cord and was able to bring her over to me. I was still so out of it. He followed her out to the nursery while they stitched me up for another 20 minutes or so. Then I was wheeled into recovery and Tony eventually brought her in. I was still out of it and really nauseous so I couldn't even hold her for a little while. When I did it just felt so natural to be next to her.

This little girl is truly the sweetest most wonderful baby! She just sleeps and sleeps until we wake her up. They said this is normal for preemies. She gets hiccups a lot like she did in my belly. When she's awake she just looks around the room with her big eyes and makes the funniest facial expressions. I will go into more details about our sweet little girl on my next post, but writing that birth story was tiring! For now here are some pictures of the hospital stay... Sorry they are a little out of order. Also warning: I added photos of the actual c-section !


 Right before surgery.


Being induced
Also right before the c-section

 "Here comes the head!" is what I was hearing at this point







Cutting the cord. Such a proud daddy. You can see his smile through the mask

Our first photo as a family of three! (Well, five including Zoey and Oakley!)








Loves her paci

Thursday, August 9, 2012

She's HERE!!

Welcome to the world Kenadie Grace Ohlson
Born: August 9, 2012 @ 1:55pm.  Weight: 6lbs. 4oz.  Length: 18 1/4 inches

Birth story coming soon...



Monday, August 6, 2012

36 WEEKS


How far along: 36 weeks, 3 days
Total weight gain/loss: Up 41 lbs. The weight gain has seemed to slow down now 
Maternity clothes? Only! :) 
Sleep: Eh... I can't complain too much but I've been waking up around 5-6am and not being able to go back to sleep for a couple of hours the past few nights 
Best moment this week: It's a toss up between our anniversary dinner on Friday and our super fun baby shower with friends last night! 
Movement? Yep and hiccups everyday 
Food cravings: I know I'm boring because it never changes but I still have to say ice water...
Gender prediction: GIRL
Belly button in or out? In
What I miss: Deli meat and Eggs Benedict 
What I am looking forward to: Kenadie's arrival! 
Milestones: 36 weeks! Very unlikely she would not go to the NICU if born now 
Things I've been experiencing this week: Heartburn. I forgot my Tums when we went to our NST appointment Friday. Holy moly, it was torture! Also more pressure on my pelvis when I go from laying down to standing 
Showing? Yes 
Size of baby: Size of a honeydew melon. Big girl! 
What Baby is up to: Her liver and kidneys are in working order, and her circulation and immune systems are good to go :) 

INDUCTION COUNTDOWN: 4 DAYS! 

This week is flying by! I can't believe its only 4 days until we give this girl her eviction notice. I am really going to miss being pregnant. However I am even more excited to meet this little one! I can't wait to see her face and hear her little cry (only for a little bit, of course :). I'm also looking forward to seeing her fingers and toes and her little hiney. I just want to be holding her and watch Tony hold her and see him be a dad. Honestly this is the luckiest girl in the world to have him as her dad. I know they are going to be so close and I am so happy for her already. 

We are just getting last minute stuff done. It seems like our to-do list is ever growing, but we have been able to check things off the list. Tony had to take one last part of a test he needs for teaching and he took the test this morning and feels really good about it. Check! So glad that's out of the way. I have been writing an endless list of thank you notes from our showers. It's been hard to get them done because I can only write a couple before my carpal tunnel kicks in like crazy and I have to stop. Got them all written out today though, just need to write a few of the addresses down. My mom has been over here almost every day helping getting the nursery ready for Kenadie. She has been amazing, hanging things up, organizing practically everything in the room and washing all of the clothes. I really hope in inherit her knack for organizing. So far...not so much. Tony's parents have been cooking us dinner so much and giving my tired body lots of neck and feet rubs! It's been wonderful! We are so so so so lucky to have such a great support team. I don't know what we would do without our family. And Kenadie is a lucky girl to have these two grandmas who love her so much. 

As for my blood pressure, its definitely been more elevated the last few days. Its always over my parameters in the morning which is really unusual. But it goes down after I lay down and take my meds. Unfortunately Tony is like a nazi and will hardly let me do anything unless my BP is under the parameters. Ok, I shouldn't  say unfortunately but it is annoying because there is so much to do! I know he's just looking out for me and Miss Kenadie though :) Anyways, I am also checking my pee for protein every morning with these little dipsticks they gave me. They have always been negative up until Friday at my NST. It showed a trace of protein so they had me start yet another 24 hour urine collection. Probably the most annoying, inconvenient thing ever! I had traces of protein again on Saturday then +1 both today and yesterday, so something is definitely in the works in my body. You need above 300 in the 24 hour collection to be officially diagnosed with preeclampsia. I haven't gotten the results back yet. I'm wondering if they would induce me earlier than Friday if its over 300? Not sure. I am so hoping we can hold out until Friday! 

We also celebrated our 5 year wedding anniversary on Friday! I can't believe its been 5 years since our wedding. I love this man even more today than on August 3, 2007. Never thought that would be possible but when your married to someone like Tony, it is!  Here are some pictures from our anniversary and our wedding day :) The anniversary pictures took a few tries with the dogs, but we had fun. The last is my favorite. 











Then we had a fun pool day on Saturday with Tony's parents, his cousin Kim and her adorable boys. 









Yesterday some of our friends threw us the cutest little baby shower! We had so much fun just hanging out, talking, laughing, and eating. I don't have all the pictures yet but here are a couple of our group pics. The gifts were so amazing and heartfelt. Tony and I left feeling truly blessed. 







Thursday, August 2, 2012

New Induction Date

Friends, our induction date has been moved up! We are now going in on AUGUST 10TH in the morning to be induced. The reason for this is of course my blood pressures. My BP was up a little at my NST on tuesday so she upped my meds again. When I got home I had an email from her saying she was looking over my chart and noticed we had to up my meds almost every time they see me so she recommended inducing a week earlier. I will be 37 weeks exactly which is full term. EXCITED! 

NEW COUNTDOWN TO INDUCTION: 8 DAYS!

Oh boy...these are going to be a busy 8 days. Lots to do!